Here, There, and Everywhere (17) I can play it on guitar, I've skated to it, and I danced with many people at my wedding to it. It's everything.
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Jewel tones are very Christmasy! Example...
Taste: ribbon candy
Touch: hand-blown Christmas ornaments with a mirror finish
Smell: cranberry candles
Hear: Christmas carols
I shouted out "Who killed the Kennedys?" when after all, it was you and me.
This song deserves a deeper dive, but this line is what devastates me. It's easy to blame someone or something else when we act upon on worst instincts...
Still feeling the anger of the elections. Four more years.
My trip around the midwest started its trajectory back home through Kansas City, where I waited for The Negro Leagues Baseball Museum to open at noon on Sunday. We had received invitations to visit time and again throughout the years, but this was my first time on historic 18th and Vine. The link: www.nlbm.com.
I have an interesting connection to the Negro Leagues as retired player/owner/entrepreneur Ted Rasberry was one of my clients at the Walgreens at Boston and Kalamazoo. He and I talked baseball here and there while he waited for his prescriptions to be filled and he slyly let me know one day that he was a former player. I fan girled on him in that moment, appropriately feeding his ego. Props to him for all he did for youth sports in Grand Rapids, and I'm glad to say there is a field and a youth league named after him. Whitecaps have honored him during Negro League games with replica jerseys. I thought of all the autographs on those clipboards we filed and then threw away. Oh, I found an excellent bio here. Godspeed, Mr. Rasberry.
I have experienced a lot of tasty steaks in my life. What meal stands out?
The sit-down dinner on my first night in Daytona Beach, spring break '87, comes to mind. After a 24-hour bus ride of prepackaged snacks, wine coolers, and fast food, the girls and I wanted a nice meal. We walked the strip and found a sit-down restaurant.
I don't remember the name of the place, and being a group of teenage girls fresh off a bus, it couldn't have been high-end. Being underaged, it could very well have been just a diner or at best, a family restaurant. All I can really remember was getting a steak, potato, salad, and garlic mushrooms. Possibly a Coke. I ate every last bite.
Tired and hungry are usually recipes for a meal hitting the spot. But also, at 17, there was the power of choice. In Daytona Beach, away on my own for the first time, I got a say in where we were going, deciding what to order, and knowing I was picking up the check.
A taste of independence in more ways than one.
I haven't lost my preference for steak, either. It is my go-to order when dining out. I'll get a ribeye, a strip, prime rib, pot roast, medallions, or even a porterhouse if I wear my eatin' pants.
Then again, I've been known to order the fish.
I imagine modern-day Laura would be living a life similar to one of my other favorite Wisconsin writers, Michael Perry, a guitar-playing, firefighting, farmer who built a shed in the woods in order to drink terrible coffee and write.
I’m sitting here wondering what I get out of these excursions across the plains to stare at replica cabins, musty quilts, handwritten school tablets, and broken china. She told historical fiction about the founding of our country and some of that history is problematic in our modern era; she really painted Ma with a broad, racist brush and asked Pa some hard questions about who the land really belonged to. In her version of the events in which she created the stories that became Little House on the Prairie, I am conflicted with her point of view of Indigenous People; was she othering them when she wanted the baby in the papoose, or was she, in her child-like point of view, connecting with the plight of the Osage through the baby's eyes?
I feel like these books are an important stepping stone towards dialogue as opposed to dismissiveness. After all, I do believe she was quoted as saying if she were a part of the Osage tribe, she would have scalped the first man who tried to claim the beautiful prairie from her.
I think she leaned into compassion for the plight of the Indians during that time in history but she missed the mark; I'm also judging her 90+ years later.
Back to her as a more spirited writer, when she wrote, she invited you to delight in a delicious drink of lemonade, find magic playing in a creek, and find a connection to her humanity from long ago.
Will never got into the books but loved the chapter when Laura got a time out for being naughty, he knew exactly how she felt. She hooked me when I picked up On the Banks of Plum Creek, where she noted upon seeing the swimming hole for the first time that suddenly, her whole skin was thirsty; I too knew exactly how that felt.
It’s remarkable that her homesteads still exist, thank goodness for land records from 1870 and 1880. Seeing her living spaces—and not some soundstage—demonstrates how the magic she saw in her surroundings was real.
Good lord, this is a ramble. Best hitch up the Bronco and hit the road.
Purple is...
Taste: grape Kool-Aid, which kids often request as purple
Touch: chenille sweater that has been worn in
Smell: lavender flowers with a hint of summer
Hear: Clair de Lune, Debussy
It appears we didn't understand the assignment. And a mediocre man takes it from an accomplished woman. We are ok with doing all the heavy lifting but leadership? Aw, that's just going too far...
Americans failed on November 5.
At the time of this writing, we are looming in on the eventual end to the election. I know how I'm going to vote, but I am exhausted.
What is startling to me is the immature rhetoric behind, well, EVERYTHING. One social media post, while praising Taylor Swift for her generous donation to a Louisiana-based food bank on her stop there for the Eras tour, felt the need to drag Kid Rock, assuming Bob Ritchie hasn't done much for his fellow American.
Oh my no: see blog post from 2012. I may not agree with his politics, but there's no doubt to his charitable works. Ted Nugent as well.
Also random, the next post was the top 20 countdown from 1980, and at #8 was Stephanie Mill's "Never Knew Love Like This Before." This made me think of the villain, Candy in the show POSE. She was the victim of a hate crime, and the subsequent fantasy montage was of her dancing and lip-syncing to her own funeral, attended by the members of her community in mourning.
I don't see myself as religious, so this may seem hypocritical, but I beg of you all to see people through the eyes of God. Maybe it will help tame the hateful mud-slinging that is happening now and, I'm guessing, for the next few months. It possibly depends on who wins and who exhibits grace.
All things on short supply.
A replica cabin built on the approximate site of the actual cabin based on the discovery of foundations. Much research went in to this site, yet it is still sparse. I don't think they knew the actual location until the 1970s, over a hundred years later.
Here are my diary notes from 8/10/24:
I was going to skate in the morning but the reality is I had to do the Air B'n'B tidy-up, pack, and get to Springfield, which is 45 minutes away. Besides, I had to take a shower in the wash tub!
Must locate coffee or tea at Panera. It's a three-hour drive to Independence, left shortly after 9 a.m.
Noon - arrived in Independence at the site! It's cute, but there's not much here that is authentic outside of Pa's well. Given how much time lapsed between the time they lived there and when they actually found the site, this is not surprising. Blame it on Pa's trouble with distance, saying Independence was 40 miles away when it was only 14.
What is here is the cabin, barn, and garden in the approximate site, an old post office and schoolhouse from the former Wayside village, and a farmhouse that serves as the gift shop. The schoolhouse is not that interesting to me, as none of the Ingalls girls went there; however, there was a nice display honoring Dr. Tann and information on the early days of modern medicine.
I'm reading a bit of the Tennessee Wildcat, going shopping in the store, attempting to find the graves (edit: I did not), heading to the Oklahoma border, and checking into my hotel. If nothing is going on in town, I'm going to catch up on sleep so I can head to KC in the morning.
Gray is conflicting. It's drab but often comforting, such as...
Taste: cup of cream of mushroom soup, dots of butter and lots of mushrooms, with crusty bread on a rainy day
Touch: a soft, oversized chunky sweater with silver threads
Smell: an afternoon of rain
Hear: Rain, The Beatles, although this song is also dark blue to me
Before telling tales about Independence, we have to head over to the Ozarks; I spent my last night in Missouri having a lovely dinner at Lambert's - home of the throwed rolls! - with my old friend from high school Carrie. The last time we saw each other was maybe early 1991.
We have become very different people, so I was nervous about meeting with an old friend. Would we run out of things to say?
I got there around 3:45 and was startled at the number of people waiting for a table. Lamberts is loud, large, and of course, there is food being thrown around, literally. I looked for Carrie, put our names in, and browsed the menu hanging outside.
Carrie showed up a few minutes before four and it was as if 30 years melted away. While good people evolve and change, at their core, they are still good people.
As if by magic, our table was ready and we were seated at a very comfortable booth inside their large dining hall, next to a party of about 20! Staff was hustling to cater to everyone's needs, including our own where we were given swim cups of iced tea and Pepsi. A waiter caught my eye and the next thing I knew, I was tossed a roll, then two, which I plopped in front of Carrie.
From their menu: this is conservative compared to the serving of chicken I actually received.
I don't know where we started in our conversation but we revisited old loves, new stories, and future plans while ordering dinner. I had fried chicken and she ordered the pork tenderloin.
In between reminiscing about biology class, we were tossed a napkin full of fried okra.
We were served cucumbers and onions while talking about prom.
We laughed over long-ago crushes and the kid who kept coming to our table with a very large pot of black-eyed peas.
And between stories and laughing, we kept getting pelted with rolls and served what they call the pass around - macaroni, black eyed peas, potatoes. A gal came by and plopped some molasses on a plate. I think I ate two rolls and kept one for my to-go box.
We talked about our kids, husbands, jobs, hobbies, adventures, reminisced about our school days, and the aches and pains of growing older. Slipping readers out of my purse to read the menu, she laughed and pulled hers out as well.
Conscious of taking up a table long after we were done eating, we paid our bills - I bought dinner while she surprised me with a cinnamon roll for morning breakfast - we went out onto the porch and people-watching while talking well into the night, finally saying goodbye around 9pm.
It was a lovely night.
A rundown of our Lambert's dinner:
One treat that stands out from my childhood was from a day's shopping at the Briarwood Mall in Ann Arbor. We always parked at a certain entrance by Hudsons (now Macy's), which was right by the candy counter. We were promised that if we behaved, we would get a treat on the way out.
With the promise of sugar, we were angels. I also remember getting the hardcover edition of The First Four Years on this trip. Books and sugar are a siren's call still, some 46 years later.
When presented with a Willy Wonka array of choices, my mind boggled. Chocolate bar? Bag of cotton candy? Roasted nut goodies? Fistful of penny treats?
One treat only, my father reminded us.
I wanted big. I wanted color. I wanted to savor this treat as long as possible.
I chose a day-long sucker the size of my head that required a wooden dowel instead of an ordinary paper stick. I had it so long, I think my mother insisted on throwing it away after leisurely licking away for weeks. I think I finally got it down to a crescent moon shape before tiring of it and letting it go.
I thought I saw all there was to see, including a trip to the local grocery store for those ginger snaps. I looked for the library that had her name on it but couldn't find it. Too bad, I missed out on seeing more artifacts that had been bequeathed to the library by her, before Roger and his family took over. I've seen the Trundlebed Tales YouTuber video, so while I didn't see it in person, I still got to tour.
So on the Mansfield trip, I toured the farmhouse, the rock house, the garage, the town, and the cemetery. The magic is in her farmhouse, which she reclaimed in the 30s and where she chose to settle for the remainder of her days. You can feel her spirit and the warmth. The cottage is beautiful and the views spectacular, but I don't know... was it the lack of staging? It just doesn't feature the warmth of the farmhouse, with the bright yellow walls and old lady furnishings.
Onto Independence, Kansas!
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